Choose the Handle That Holds: Owning the Moments That Matter

True power lies not in what happens to us, but in how we respond. In this keynote inspired by her book, Choose the Handle That Holds, Becky introduces her SAFE Leadership Framework—Strength, Agility, Flexibility, and Endurance—blended with a fresh, modern perspective on Stoic philosophy. Challenging the misconceptions that Stoicism is rigid or unemotional, Becky shows how its principles are deeply practical, helping us navigate life’s challenges with purpose and clarity. This talk empowers audiences to rethink leadership as a lifestyle, embrace resilience, and take charge of the moments that truly matter.

“If your audience leaves inspired but unchanged, what was the point?”

Too many talks are built to impress. Becky builds hers to land. Every keynote is created for the people in the room—not recycled from the last stage, not packed with buzzwords or cliches. Just real, honest stories that people actually see themselves in, humor and tools they’ll reach for when the motivation fades and the real work begins.
Because talks don’t change lives—what people do with them does.

From NFL teams to corporate conferences, hospitals to universities, Becky delivers presentations that stick—no matter the industry, the audience, or the setting.

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Game Changer: The Process That Redefines and Sustains Success

Success isn’t static—it’s a moving target. Without the right process, goals slip through your fingers, and failure wastes time instead of driving growth. This keynote introduces STOA, a powerful framework that transforms how you set goals, learn from setbacks, and continuously raise the bar. By cutting out wasted effort and unlocking the lessons hidden in failure, STOA helps you achieve real success faster and discover what it means to be beyond resilient. It’s the game plan for building a culture where excellence isn’t just achieved—it’s constantly elevated.

Leadership Unlocked: Breaking the Myths That Hold You Back

What if everything you’ve been taught about leadership is wrong? Leadership isn’t a job title or a position—it’s a lifestyle. In this eye-opening keynote. Becky shatters the myths that keep individuals and teams stuck, revealing how true leadership is the key to living fully instead of just passing time. Learn how to lead with purpose, transform everyday moments into opportunities, and unlock your full potential by embracing leadership as a way of being, not just something you do.